RAVE PARENTS

We can talk about drugs without breaking trust

Calm scripts and safety plans for nights out and festivals. No lectures. No scare stories. Just ways to keep them safer and keep the door open.

Built by ravers. Trusted by parents.

Start here

Three simple things you can do this week to make the next conversation easier.

Start early

Keep it age-appropriate and build it up over time. If they can hear it online or at school, they can hear it safely from you first.

Stay calm and factual

Avoid “how-to” detail. Ask what they already know, set clear boundaries, and repeat the message. “I’m here to keep you safe.”

Agree a safety plan

A code word or emoji, meeting points, transport home, and a “get help early” rule reduces panic and increases honest help-seeking.

Pause and remember this

Built by ravers. Trusted by parents.

If you only remember one thing, remember this. If something goes wrong, honesty saves time. Time saves lives.

If they ever call you because a mate is unwell, tell them to stay with the person and get staff or medics straight away. If someone is unconscious, having a seizure, or not breathing normally, call 999.
Rave parents: a calm, supportive moment

The questions most parents ask

Five questions that come up again and again. Built to keep things calm and focused on safety.

Say it like this

Keep it short. Stay calm. Keep it about safety.

Opening line

“I’m not here to judge you. I’m worried about your safety. Can we talk for five minutes?”

If they shut down

“We don’t have to do this now. I’m here when you’re ready. I care about your safety, not getting you in trouble.”

No-questions pickup plan

Agree a code word or emoji. If they send it, you collect them. No lecture in the moment. Talk later when everyone is safe.

Ask Miss K

Miss K gives straight answers. No judgement. Just clear, safety-first advice and conversation starters.

What Miss K can help with
  • How to start the conversation without sounding like a cop.
  • What to say if they admit they’ve tried something.
  • Festival and party safety plans and pickup code words.
  • How to explain risks calmly and clearly.
Try these prompts
Try: “My child is 15 and I’m worried about vaping. What do I say tonight?”
Try: “What safety plan should we agree before a festival?”
Educational information only. Not a substitute for medical advice. If someone is unwell or at risk, seek professional medical help or call 999 in an emergency.

Before they go out

A simple plan means less panic and faster help if something goes wrong.

The basics
  • Stay with friends. No solo missions.
  • Set meeting points. Add a backup point.
  • Charged phone plus portable charger.
  • Transport home planned before they leave.
Welfare and medics
  • Find welfare and medics as soon as they arrive.
  • Make early help-seeking non-negotiable.
  • If anything’s taken, honesty helps medics act faster.
Mixing message
  • Mixing substances and alcohol increases unpredictability and risk.
  • If something goes wrong, tell an adult or medic exactly what happened.

When to get backup

You don’t have to wait for a crisis to get advice.

  • If use is ongoing, mental health is slipping, or risk is rising.
  • If you suspect coercion, exploitation, or unsafe environments.
  • If there has been a medical incident, get professional support.
  • If your gut is screaming at you, it counts. Get advice early.

What changes should I actually look for

Do not try to diagnose. Look for patterns. Then start a calm, safety-first chat.

One difficult week or bad mood rarely means substance use. Look for repeated changes over time.

Mood and behaviour
  • More secretive, more defensive, more shutting down than usual.
  • Big mood swings that keep repeating.
  • More risky decisions, more arguments, more impulse.
Body and routine
  • Sleep changes that stick around.
  • Appetite changes, weight change, looking run down.
  • More illness, more headaches, more “I feel rough” days.
Money and social
  • Money going missing or constant “can I borrow” requests.
  • New friendship group plus sudden secrecy.
  • More lying about where they are, or who they’re with.

What to do with this

Pick one thing you have noticed and name it calmly. Ask one open question. Then offer a safety plan, not a lecture.

“I’ve noticed you’ve been getting in late and you seem wiped out. Are you ok. Anything going on that I should know about to keep you safe?”

Emergency red flags

If you’re unsure, act early.

Get urgent help for
Unconsciousness. Seizures. Breathing problems. Chest pain. Severe overheating. Extreme confusion. Collapse. Not responding normally.

If your child calls because a friend is unwell, tell them do not leave the person alone. Get staff or medics immediately. If symptoms are severe, call 999.

Look after your mates. Look after yourself. RaveSafe and we'll see you in the fields.

Planet Plush The World Of Miss K

Planet Plush isn’t about extremes — it’s about finding balance in a chaotic universe.
Miss K knows that life can be intense, numbing, or overwhelming — but softness, stillness, and self-awareness bring you back to centre.

Whether you’re floating through the stars or feeling stuck in shadow, pause, breathe, and check in.
Use with intention, not escape. Rest when you need to. Speak kindly to yourself.

You don’t need to feel everything — or nothing — all at once.
Planet Plush teaches that healing lives in the in-between.

Planet Rubble - The World Of Pink Cocaine

On Planet Rubble, nothing’s quite what it seems.
“Pink cocaine” might look cute — but it’s often a chaotic mix of unknown chemicals, and no two batches are the same.

Some blends contain 2C-B, others include MDMA, ketamine, or speed — and some have no psychedelic at all.
The effects range from euphoric to unpredictable to downright dangerous.

Start tiny, test if you can, and don’t mix it with anything else.
It hits harder than it looks — especially when snorted.
Avoid redosing until you really know how your body reacts.

Planet Rubble is unstable terrain — tread lightly.

Planet Vibe - The World Of Speed

Speed keeps you going — but on Planet Vibe, too much can burn you out fast. You might feel focused, energised, or chatty, but that high can quickly tip into anxiety, tension, or paranoia.

Lack of sleep, not eating, and redosing too often can wreck both body and mind.
Overheating and heart strain are real risks — especially when dancing for hours.

Eat well, sip water, and take breaks.
Avoid mixing with alcohol or other uppers, and don’t use for days on end.
Rest and recovery matter more than you think.

Planet Vibe runs on rhythm — not overdrive.

Planet kE - The World Of Cocaine

Cocaine can make you feel confident, chatty, and wired — but it’s also fast, intense, and risky. On Planet Kilo, your heart races, your jaw tightens, and the comedown can hit hard.

Short-lasting highs lead many to redose quickly, but that’s when paranoia, anxiety, and crashes creep in.
It’s easy to cross the line — especially in crowded or unfamiliar spaces.

Chop small. Don’t chase it. Avoid mixing with alcohol or other drugs.
Stay cool, stay calm, and know when to stop.

Planet Kilo rewards pacing, not pushing.

Planet Myco - The World Of Plecybin

Magic mushrooms can open the mind and shift perception — but they’re powerful and unpredictable. On Planet Myco, time can stretch, visuals can bloom, and emotions can feel intense.
Start with a low dose in a safe, comfortable setting, ideally with someone you trust.

Avoid mixing with other substances, especially alcohol.
Trips can last 4–6 hours, and while many feel joyful or insightful, some can be overwhelming.

Stay grounded. Stay hydrated. And remember — the setting shapes the journey.

Planet Woah - The World Of LSD

LSD can take your mind on wild adventures — but Planet Woah isn’t always easy to navigate.
Visuals, thoughts, and emotions become intensely amplified, and the trip can last 8–12 hours.

Set and setting are everything.
If you’re anxious, overwhelmed, or in a chaotic place, the experience can spiral into confusion or fear.
Bad trips feel very real — even though they’ll pass.

Start low. Stay safe. Be somewhere calm with people you trust.
Avoid mirrors, crowded spaces, and mixing with other substances.

Planet Woah is powerful — respect the journey.

Planet E - The World Of MDMA (ecstacy)

MDMA can feel like pure connection — open hearts, glowing faces, and waves of love.
But on Planet E, what starts magical can turn risky without care.

Overheating, dehydration, and redosing are the biggest dangers.
MDMA also hits harder when mixed with alcohol, stimulants, or SSRIs — and once your serotonin is spent, chasing the high just leads to a crash.

Start low, wait at least 2 hours before redosing (if at all), and sip water slowly — no more than a pint an hour.
Take breaks, look after your mates, and know that less is often more.

Planet E shines brightest when you party with your head and your heart.

Planet PaRa - The World Of Ketamine

Ketamine creates a floaty, dream like state – but it’s not a party drug to take lightly.  can completely shut down movement and awareness the (K-hole), and regular use can wreck your bladder and mental health. Watch your dose. avoid mixing and always stay safe and grounded.

Planet 420 - The Home Of Bud & Blunt

Planet 420 moves at its own pace. Conversations run deep, snacks disappear, and time melts into laughter and thought.
Bud & Blunt aren’t in a rush — and they’ll be the first to tell you that’s the point.

Cannabis may feel mellow, but it’s not risk-free.
Too much too fast can cause anxiety, paranoia, or greening out.
Edibles hit differently — wait at least 1–2 hours before considering more.

Respect your limits, stay hydrated, and don’t mix with alcohol or other drugs.
Sometimes the deepest vibe is just being fully present.

Planet 420 isn’t about escape — it’s about connection.